In The Beginning

Most likely you're here because you're interested in dom/sub relationships. Maybe your relationship is heading in that direction. Or, maybe you're interested in having a discussion with your partner. Whatever the reason, you must understand. Not all people are capable of being dominate or submissive. Here are some things to look for:

• Do you like to lead? In & out of the bedroom?
• Is your partner passive? Like to be told what to do?
• Does it turn your partner on when you take it (sex)?
• Do you enjoy taking it?
• Do you initiate the majority of sexual encounters?

If you feel any of these are you and your partner, you may very well benefit from giving it a try. Try what? Try and learn about dom/sub relationships and apply them in your relationship. You need to determine what your and your partners desires are. Knowing yourself and your partner is key. None of this works if either of you are comfortable.

Determine how far you'd like to take it. In the bedroom only? Or, an entire lifestyle? Because for most, a dom/sub relationship is very much a lifestyle. Discuss these topics with your partner:

• Do you want to claim her? Does she want claimed?
• Can you tell her what to do and be comfortable with it?
• Can she follow your directions and be comfortable with it?
• Should she wear a collar?
• Should you carry a key?
• Can you get in to bondage?

If some of these peak both your interest, read through some of the topics on this page. I will cover everything from psychology to sex. Feel free to leave comments or questions in posts. You can also ask question by following me on Twitter at @Daddy_Dom_69.